“the female orgasm”

(general orgasmic factors and variabilities)

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(in ‘women’, the most common way to achieve ‘orgasm’ is by “physical sexual stimulation of the clitoris”;

(general statistics indicate that 70–80% of women require ‘direct clitoral stimulation;

(consistent manual, oral or other concentrated friction against the external parts of the clitoris)

to achieve orgasm, 

(though indirect clitoral stimulation (for example, via ‘vaginal penetration’) may also be sufficient)

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(the ‘Mayo Clinic’ stated, “orgasms vary in intensity, and women vary in the frequency of their orgasms and the amount of stimulation necessary to trigger an orgasm”)

(‘clitoral orgasms’ are easier to achieve because the glans of the clitoris, or clitoris as a whole, has more than 8,000 sensory nerve endings, which is as many (or more in some cases) nerve endings present in the human penis or ‘glans penis’)

(as the clitoris is homologous to the penis, it is the equivalent in its capacity to receive sexual stimulation)

(one misconception, particularly in older research publications, is that the vagina is completely insensitive)

(however, there are areas in the anterior vaginal wall and between the top junction of the labia minora and the urethra that are especially sensitive)

(with regard to specific density of nerve endings, while the area commonly described as the G-spot may produce an orgasm, and the urethral sponge, an area in which the G-spot may be found, runs along the “roof” of the vagina and can create pleasurable sensations when stimulated, intense sexual pleasure (including orgasm) from vaginal stimulation is occasional or otherwise absent because the vagina has significantly fewer nerve endings than the clitoris)

(the greatest concentration of vaginal nerve endings are at the lower third (near the entrance) of the vagina)

(sex educator ‘Rebecca Chalker’ states that only one part of the clitoris, the urethral sponge, is in contact with the penis, fingers, or a dildo in the vagina)

Hite and Chalker state that the tip of the clitoris and the inner lips, which are also very sensitive, are not receiving direct stimulation during penetrative intercourse.

(because of this, some couples may engage in the woman on top position or the coital alignment technique to maximize clitoral stimulation)

(for some women, the clitoris is very sensitive after climax, making additional stimulation initially painful)

(Masters and Johnson argued that all women are potentially multiply orgasmic, but that multiply orgasmic men are rare, and stated that “the female is capable of rapid return to orgasm immediately following an orgasmic experience, if restimulated before tensions have dropped below plateau phase response levels”)

(though generally reported that women do not experience a refractory period and thus can experience an additional orgasm, or multiple orgasms, soon after the first one, some sources state that both men and women experience a refractory period because women may also experience a period after orgasm in which further sexual stimulation does not produce excitement)

(after the initial orgasm, subsequent orgasms for women may be stronger or more pleasurable as the stimulation accumulates)

clitoral and vaginal categories

(discussions of female orgasm are complicated by orgasms in women typically being divided into two categories: clitoral orgasm and vaginal (or G-spot) orgasm)

(in 1973, Irving Singer theorized that there are three types of female orgasms; he categorized these as ‘vulval’, ‘uterine’, and ‘blended’, but because he was a philosopher, “these categories were generated from descriptions of orgasm in literature rather than laboratory studies”)

(in 1982, Ladas, Whipple and Perry also proposed 3 categories: the ‘tenting type’ (derived from clitoral stimulation), the ‘A-frame type’ (derived from G-spot stimulation), and the ‘blended type’ (derived from clitoral and G-spot stimulation))

(in 1999, Whipple and Komisaruk proposed cervix stimulation as being able to cause a fourth type of female orgasm)

(female orgasms by means other than clitoral or vaginal/G-spot stimulation are less prevalent in scientific literature and most scientists contend that no distinction should be made between “types” of female orgasm)

(this distinction began with ‘Sigmund Freud’, who postulated the concept of “vaginal orgasm” as separate from ‘clitoral orgasm’)

(in 1905, Freud stated that clitoral orgasms are purely an adolescent phenomenon and that upon reaching puberty, the proper response of mature women is a change-over to vaginal orgasms, meaning orgasms without any clitoral stimulation)

(while Freud provided no evidence for this basic assumption, the consequences of this theory were considerable)

(many women felt inadequate when they could not achieve orgasm via vaginal intercourse alone, involving little or no clitoral stimulation, as Freud’s theory made penile-vaginal intercourse the central component to women’s sexual satisfaction)

(the first major national surveys of sexual behavior were the ‘Kinsey Reports’)

(‘Alfred Kinsey’ was the first researcher to harshly criticize Freud’s ideas about female sexuality and orgasm when, through his interviews with thousands of women, Kinsey found that most of the women he surveyed could not have vaginal orgasms)

(he “criticized Freud and other theorists for projecting male constructs of sexuality onto women” and “viewed the clitoris as the main center of sexual response” and the vagina as “relatively unimportant” for sexual satisfaction, relaying that “few women inserted fingers or objects into their vaginas when they masturbated”)

(he “concluded that satisfaction from penile penetration [is] mainly psychological or perhaps the result of referred sensation”)

(Masters and Johnson’s research into the female sexual response cycle, as well as Shere Hite’s, generally supported Kinsey’s findings about female orgasm)

(Masters and Johnson’s research on the topic came at the time of the second-wave feminist movement, and inspired feminists such as Anne Koedt, author of The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm, to speak about the “false distinction” made between clitoral and vaginal orgasms and women’s biology not being properly analyzed)

clitoral and vaginal relationships

(accounts that the vagina is capable of producing orgasms continue to be subject to debate because, in addition to the vagina’s low concentration of nerve endings, reports of the G-spot’s location are inconsistent—it appears to be nonexistent in some women and may be an extension of another structure, such as the Skene’s gland or the clitoris, which is a part of the Skene’s gland)

(in a January 2012 The Journal of Sexual Medicine review examining years of research into the existence of the G-spot, scholars stated that “[r]eports in the public media would lead one to believe the G-spot is a well-characterized entity capable of providing extreme sexual stimulation, yet this is far from the truth”)

(possible explanations for the G-spot were examined by Masters and Johnson, who were the first researchers to determine that the clitoral structures surround and extend along and within the ‘labia’)

(in addition to observing that the majority of their female subjects could only have clitoral orgasms, they found that both clitoral and vaginal orgasms had the same stages of physical response)

(on this basis, they argued that clitoral stimulation is the source of both kinds of orgasms, reasoning that the clitoris is stimulated during penetration by friction against its hood; their notion that this provides the clitoris with sufficient sexual stimulation has been criticized by researchers such as ‘Elisabeth Lloyd’)

(australian urologist Helen O’Connell’s 2005 research additionally indicates a connection between orgasms experienced vaginally and the clitoris, suggesting that clitoral tissue extends into the anterior wall of the vagina and that therefore clitoral and vaginal orgasms are of the same origin)

(some studies, using ultrasound, have found physiological evidence of the G-spot in women who report having orgasms during vaginal intercourse, but O’Connell suggests that the clitoris’s interconnected relationship with the vagina is the physiological explanation for the conjectured G-spot)

(having used MRI technology which enabled her to note a direct relationship between the legs or roots of the clitoris and the erectile tissue of the “clitoral bulbs” and corpora, and the distal urethra and vagina, she stated that the vaginal wall is the clitoris; that lifting the skin off the vagina on the side walls reveals the bulbs of the clitoris—triangular, crescental masses of erectile tissue)

(O’Connell et al., who performed dissections on the female genitals of cadavers and used photography to map the structure of nerves in the clitoris, were already aware that the clitoris is more than just its glans and asserted in 1998 that there is more erectile tissue associated with the clitoris than is generally described in anatomical textbooks)

(they concluded that some females have more extensive clitoral tissues and nerves than others, especially having observed this in young cadavers as compared to elderly ones, and therefore whereas the majority of females can only achieve orgasm by direct stimulation of the external parts of the clitoris, the stimulation of the more generalized tissues of the clitoris via intercourse may be sufficient for others)

(French researchers Odile Buisson and Pierre Foldès reported similar findings to that of O’Connell’s)

(in 2008, they published the first complete 3D sonography of the stimulated clitoris, and republished it in 2009 with new research, demonstrating the ways in which erectile tissue of the clitoris engorges and surrounds the vagina, arguing that women may be able to achieve vaginal orgasm via stimulation of the G-spot because the highly innervated clitoris is pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal penetration)

(they assert that since the front wall of the vagina is inextricably linked with the internal parts of the clitoris, stimulating the vagina without activating the clitoris may be next to impossible)

(in their 2009 published study, the “coronal planes during perineal contraction and finger penetration demonstrated a close relationship between the root of the clitoris and the anterior vaginal wall”)

(Buisson and Foldès suggested “that the special sensitivity of the lower anterior vaginal wall could be explained by pressure and movement of clitoris’s root during a vaginal penetration and subsequent perineal contraction”)

(supporting a distinct G-spot is a study by Rutgers University, published 2011, which was the first to map the female genitals onto the sensory portion of the brain; brain scans showed that the brain registered distinct feelings between stimulating the clitoris, the cervix and the vaginal wall – where the G-spot is reported to be – when several women stimulated themselves in a functional magnetic resonance (fMRI) machine)

(“I think that the bulk of the evidence shows that the G-spot is not a particular thing,” stated Barry Komisaruk, head of the research findings. “It’s not like saying, ‘What is the thyroid gland?’ The G-spot is more of a thing like New York City is a thing. It’s a region, it’s a convergence of many different structures”)

(commenting on Komisaruk’s research and other findings, Emmanuele Jannini, a professor of endocrinology at the University of Aquila in Italy, acknowledged a series of essays published in March 2012 in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, which document evidence that vaginal and clitoral orgasms are separate phenomena that activate different areas of the brain and possibly suggest key psychological differences between women)

other factors and research

(regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation, known as ‘anorgasmia’, is significantly more common in women than in men)

(in addition to sexual dysfunction being a cause for women’s inability to reach orgasm, or the amount of time for sexual arousal needed to reach orgasm being variable and longer in women than in men, other factors include a lack of communication between sexual partners about what is needed for the woman to reach orgasm, feelings of sexual inadequacy in either partner, a focus on only penetration (vaginal or otherwise), and men generalizing women’s trigger for orgasm based on their own sexual experiences with other women)

(Masters and Johnson found that men took about four minutes to reach orgasm with their partners)

(women took about 10–20 minutes to reach orgasm with their partners, but four minutes to reach orgasm when they masturbated)

(scholars state “many couples are locked into the idea that orgasms should be achieved only through intercourse [vaginal sex]” and that “[e]ven the word foreplay suggests that any other form of sexual stimulation is merely preparation for the ‘main event.’… …Because women reach orgasm through intercourse less consistently than men, they are more likely than men to have faked an orgasm”)

(sex counselor Ian Kerner stated, “It’s a myth that using the penis is the main way to pleasure a woman”)

(he cites research concluding that women reach orgasm about 25% of the time with intercourse, compared with 81% of the time during oral sex (cunnilingus))

(in the first large-scale empirical study worldwide to link specific practices with orgasm, reported in the Journal of Sex Research in 2006, demographic and sexual history variables were comparatively weakly associated with orgasm)

(data was analyzed from the “Australian Study of Health and Relationships”, a national telephone survey of sexual behavior and attitudes and sexual health knowledge carried out in 2001–2002, with a representative sample of 19,307 Australians aged 16 to 59)

(practices included “vaginal intercourse alone (12%), vaginal + manual stimulation of the man’s and/or woman’s genitals (49%), and vaginal intercourse + manual + oral (32%)” and the “[e]ncounters may also have included other practices)

(men had an orgasm in 95% of encounters and women in 69%)

(generally, the more practices engaged in, the higher a woman’s chance of having an orgasm)

(women were more likely to reach orgasm in encounters including cunnilingus)

(other studies suggest that women exposed to lower levels of prenatal androgens are more likely to experience orgasm during vaginal intercourse than other women)

(how long does female orgasm usually take?)

hello everyone my girl and i have fooled a round a few times 4 or 5 and every time is 10-20 mins long, this is caused by us HAVING to stop. we dont get much alone time.

but every time i ALWAYS concentrated on her, and ive never given her an orgasm, she aways shes it felt amazing you did everything perfectly we just didnt have enouph time for it to HAPPEN.

needless to say after this happened a few times my confidence was shot and i felt much like i failed her.

but my question is how long does a female orgasm usually take?

Christina L

Is seldom for us to get an orgasm just from penetration alone..

Unless you know which sexual positions help in aiding to stimulate our “Clitoris”/ “G-spot” -a small lap of skin just over the vagina at the same time during penetration.

Trying out sex positions that stimulate the g spot will also help in woman having orgasm during lovemaking!

But to most woman, sex IS satisfying even without an orgasm.

We value the closeness, being intimate, cuddling, more than the orgasm. =)

Female orgasm can be achieve with constant stimulation of the Clitoris and g-spot.

It depends on the speed and varies of stimulation and how comfortable she allows herself to achieve it.

Therefore, there is no specific “time” to determine how long an orgasm will usually take..

Enjoy the moment with her, rather than to concentrate on giving her have an orgasm!

We will appreciate you concentrating in giving us good foreplay instead.. =)

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Jess

Depends on the individual. I think anywhere from 10-30 mins but it can take longer.

Why are you having to stop?

Many girls can’t orgasm when they’re thinking about having to stop or someone catching them even if it does feel really good, so this could be the problem.

Try at a time where you will have plenty of time and don’t have to stop.

Karianne:

Dont worry about it, your probably doing nothing wrong.  

Hell, its taken me 50 minutes before.  shes probably just pre occupied because shes worried about getting caught, or maybe shes just thinking too hard about it.  wait until you have alot of time together then just go with the flow.  (:

Meepa BIt:

could take a short time or a long time, and shes right 10-20 is not enough.

Tracy M:

Okay let me help you! I’m a Passion consultant!  First of all, Woman are much different than men…obviously! We need about 20 minutes of foreplay to get our blood flowing, and juice’s going.  Once you move to the main course you need to know all the parts. There is the G-spot, labias, vaginal opening, clitorus, the perineal, and anus.  Around the anus is especially sensitive, and even if you just play around there it can set her off.  Okay, the G-spot is located upward. Take one or two fingers, palm side up. Insert them and make a come hither motion. You should feel a spot that feels like the roof of your mouth but, a little rougher. This is the G-spot. Massaging this spot can help a lot.  The clitoris (possible spelling error?) is the small gumdrop jewel above the vaginal opening, It can be inside a hood type thing, and usually pops out during arousal. Communicate with your partner to find out how she likes pleasure there. Woman are different. While some like it rough, others are extremely sensitive!  The other parts you can gently run your fingers over, or around and this feels good because of all the nerve endings.  80% of woman can’t have any orgasm without clitoral stimulation…Some still have difficulty. This could be due to thier confidence level, or just the way they work.

If they masturbate a lot they could have trained themselves to be used to their way.

Ask her if she masturbates…

If she says no, or denies it.

Tell her not to do it for a week or so because bla bla!  

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